Mohanji
Q: I cannot find my husband and start a family. Why is it?
Mohanji: You are very lucky (chuckles) actually; I can give you a one-word answer: if you can’t find your husband, it is probably karmic.
However, let us imagine this situation I tell you, don’t take it seriously, I’m just trying to explain the situation in a bit of a comical way.
Imagine you had a husband who was beating you up and your only prayer to God was, “Please God, take this guy away from me,” or “I don’t need to have a husband anymore”.
What happens next? That life is already determined because you have a husband who beats you. Your next life happens and your prayer is answered. It took a lifetime to get your prayer answered!
Thus, in this lifetime you don’t have a husband. Now you are praying, “Oh, God, give me a husband!” So that guy is maybe still waiting to come to you (laughs) and continue with his journey – not your journey, his journey.
I’m joking, but understand there is always a reason for everything and the causes are usually the prayers or the deep desires of last life. It’s usually the case.
A person, who was in extreme poverty, craves for money and in the next life they become rich. Because in that life it was not possible, as per the karmic configuration.